http://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/ University of Utah Blog en-us Fri, 24 Jul 2026 07:56:21 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss OmniUpdate (OU Publish) https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2026/04/when-you-hold-power.php Holding power is something we all do and have in all aspects of life. Power is omnipresent and can shift in dynamics. It is important to recognize this as we navigate romantic relationships. Read as our Center Director, Elaine Newton, about her experience of realizing when she held power in one of her relationships. She applied this realization to avoid hurting her partner. Elaine Newton, Center Director Mon, 29 Jun 2026 18:30:45 +0000 When You Hold Power "When You Hold Power" written atop a purple starry sky. A couple sits on a bench facing the moon and "I love you..." is written under them. The McCluskey Center logo is on the bottom of the image. "When You Hold Power" written atop a purple starry sky. A couple sits on a bench facing the moon and "I love you..." is written under them. The McCluskey Center logo is on the bottom of the image. https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2026/04/when-you-hold-power.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2026/03/i-would-never-do-that-and-other-falsehoods.php “I would never do that” can make harm feel like something only other people cause. But violence prevention starts with honest self-reflection. Everyone has a role in noticing power, respecting boundaries, listening to feedback, and taking responsibility for their actions. Safer communities grow when people move beyond denial and choose accountability, care, and change. Tillie Powell, Graduate Assistant Thu, 05 Mar 2026 18:30:45 +0000 "I Would Never Do That!" And Other Falsehoods We Tell Ourselves About Causing Harm.  “I Would Never Do That!” And Other Falsehoods We Tell Ourselves About Causing Harm.  “I Would Never Do That!” And Other Falsehoods We Tell Ourselves About Causing Harm.  https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2026/03/i-would-never-do-that-and-other-falsehoods.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2026/02/purity-culture.php Purity culture can teach shame, fear, and silence around sex, bodies, and desire. These messages can make it harder to talk about consent, boundaries, harm, and healing. Healthier relationships come from honest education, respect, choice, and care instead of control or judgment. Everyone deserves to understand their body, name their needs, and make decisions free from pressure or shame. Tillie Powell, Graduate Assistant Thu, 19 Feb 2026 17:39:55 +0000 Purity Culture: When Policing Purity Becomes More Important Than Protecting People Purity Culture: When Policing Purity Becomes More Important Than Protecting People Purity Culture: When Policing Purity Becomes More Important Than Protecting People https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2026/02/purity-culture.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2026/02/virginity.php Virginity is often treated like a measure of worth, but it is a social idea shaped by shame, pressure, and control. People deserve to make choices about sex at their own pace and for their own reasons. Healthier relationships grow when communities respect boundaries, reject judgment, and value people for who they are, not their sexual history. Tillie Powell, Graduate Assistant Wed, 04 Feb 2026 19:44:11 +0000 Virginity Virginity Virginity https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2026/02/virginity.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2026/02/the-myth-of-queer-safety.php Queer relationships and communities can be joyful, loving, and powerful, but queerness alone does not make a space safe. Harm can happen in any relationship, even when people share identity or community. Real care means naming harm, respecting boundaries, noticing power, supporting survivors, and holding each other accountable. Safer queer communities grow through honesty, empathy, and self-reflection. Tillie Powell, Graduate Assistant Wed, 04 Feb 2026 16:27:34 +0000 The Myth of Queer Safety The Myth of Queer Safety The Myth of Queer Safety https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2026/02/the-myth-of-queer-safety.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2026/01/hazing-lets-call-it-what-it-is.php Hazing is not tradition, bonding, or harmless fun. It is a form of harm that uses power, pressure, and humiliation to control others. When groups excuse hazing, they create spaces where abuse can grow. Real belonging should never require fear, shame, or pain. Safer communities are built through respect, accountability, and care. Tillie Powell, Graduate Assistant Thu, 22 Jan 2026 18:03:25 +0000 Hazing - Let's Call It What It Is Hazing – Let’s Call It What It Is Hazing – Let’s Call It What It Is https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2026/01/hazing-lets-call-it-what-it-is.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/12/from-noise-to-silence.php Party culture can make harm seem normal, hidden inside noise, pressure, and “just having fun.” A first frat party shows how control, alcohol, isolation, and unspoken expectations can put students at risk. Real prevention means noticing body language, respecting boundaries, checking in, and holding friends accountable. Safer fun is possible when care, consent, and shared responsibility come first. Kaley Kavanaugh, Student Staff Member Fri, 05 Dec 2025 19:28:48 +0000 From Noise to Silence: My First Frat Party Taught Me More About Harm than Fun From Noise to Silence: My First Frat Party Taught Me More About Harm than Fun From Noise to Silence: My First Frat Party Taught Me More About Harm than Fun https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/12/from-noise-to-silence.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/09/committed-relationship-not-equal-consent.php A committed relationship does not mean automatic consent. Dating, marriage, or past sexual experiences never give someone the right to ignore boundaries. Healthy relationships require respect, communication, and choice every time. Consent should be clear, willing, and easy to take back. Real care means listening, checking in, and valuing a partner’s comfort over assumptions or pressure. Tillie Powell Thu, 11 Sep 2025 00:58:13 +0000 ≠ Consent Campaign A Committed Relationship Does Not Equal Consent A Committed Relationship ≠ Consent A Committed Relationship ≠ Consent https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/09/committed-relationship-not-equal-consent.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/09/appearance-not-equal-consent.php Appearance is never consent. Clothing, flirting, makeup, or body language cannot replace a clear, willing yes. Assuming someone wants attention or sex because of how they look can cause real harm. Healthy consent means asking, listening, and respecting boundaries every time. Safer communities are built when people value choice, dignity, and respect over harmful assumptions. Becca Clarke Wed, 10 Sep 2025 01:01:29 +0000 ≠ Consent Campaign Appearance Does Not Equal Consent Appearance ≠ Consent Appearance ≠ Consent https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/09/appearance-not-equal-consent.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/09/coercion-not-equal-consent.php Coercion is not consent. Pressure, guilt, threats, repeated asking, or using power over someone can make a person feel like they have no real choice. Healthy consent must be clear, willing, and freely given. Respect means accepting boundaries the first time, listening without pushing, and making sure every person feels safe to say yes or no. Deevya Baral Tue, 09 Sep 2025 01:06:06 +0000 ≠ Consent Campaign Coercion Does Not Equal Consent Coercion ≠ Consent Coercion ≠ Consent https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/09/coercion-not-equal-consent.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/09/flirting-not-equal-consent.php Flirting is not consent. Smiling, joking, texting, dancing, or showing interest does not mean someone agrees to sex or touch. Healthy consent must be clear, willing, and freely given every time. Respect means asking, listening, and accepting someone’s boundaries without pressure. Safer relationships grow when people value choice over assumptions. Jilly Mcbane Sat, 06 Sep 2025 01:09:09 +0000 ≠ Consent Campaign Flirting Does Not Equal Consent Flirting ≠ Consent Flirting ≠ Consent https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/09/flirting-not-equal-consent.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/09/presence-not-equal-consent.php Being present is not consent. Going to someone’s room, attending a party, staying late, or being alone with someone does not mean a person agrees to sex or touch. Healthy consent must be clear, willing, and freely given every time. Respect means asking, listening, and never treating someone’s location as permission. Savannah Holzer Fri, 05 Sep 2025 01:11:33 +0000 ≠ Consent Campaign Presence Does Not Equal Consent Presence ≠ Consent Presence ≠ Consent https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/09/presence-not-equal-consent.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/09/privacy-not-equal-consent.php Privacy is not consent. Being alone with someone, closing a door, or sharing a private space does not mean a person agrees to sex or touch. Healthy consent must be clear, willing, and freely given every time. Respect means asking, listening, and never treating privacy as permission. Kaley Kavanaugh Thu, 04 Sep 2025 01:15:43 +0000 ≠ Consent Campaign Privacy Does Not Equal Consent Privacy ≠ Consent Privacy ≠ Consent https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/09/privacy-not-equal-consent.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/09/silence-not-equal-consent.php Silence is not consent. Freezing, staying quiet, or not saying “no” does not mean someone agrees to sex or touch. Healthy consent must be clear, willing, and freely given every time. Respect means checking in, listening to words and body language, and stopping when someone seems unsure, uncomfortable, or quiet. Allie Moore Wed, 03 Sep 2025 01:17:58 +0000 ≠ Consent Campaign Silence Does Not Equal Consent Silence ≠ Consent Silence ≠ Consent https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/09/silence-not-equal-consent.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/08/what-we-dont-talk-about-when-we-talk-about-stalking.php Stalking is often shown as extreme or easy to spot, but it can also look like repeated texts, unwanted visits, tracking, or ignoring someone’s boundaries. Strong feelings after rejection, loneliness, or a breakup never excuse causing harm. Respect means accepting “no,” noticing when attention is unwanted, and taking responsibility for your actions before they hurt someone. Tillie Powell, Graduate Assistant Thu, 07 Aug 2025 00:38:15 +0000 What We Don't Talk About When We Talk About Stalking What We Don’t Talk About When We Talk About Stalking What We Don’t Talk About When We Talk About Stalking https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/08/what-we-dont-talk-about-when-we-talk-about-stalking.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/05/a-farewell-from-chris.php A farewell can also be a reflection on what is possible. Dr. Chris Linder looks back on the McCluskey Center’s work to prevent violence through research, education, community, and bold ideas. The message honors grief, growth, mistakes, repair, and hope. It also reminds readers that a world without violence is still worth dreaming about and working toward. Dr. Chris Linder, MCVP Director Thu, 15 May 2025 18:19:22 +0000 A Farewell from Chris A Farewell from Chris A Farewell from Chris https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/05/a-farewell-from-chris.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/02/dreaming-for-more-than-punishment.php Justice can be more than punishment. Ending sexual violence also means imagining systems that focus on healing, accountability, prevention, and care. Punishment alone does not always repair harm or stop future violence. Safer communities are built when people ask deeper questions about responsibility, support survivors, and create paths toward real change. Tillie Powell, Graduate Assistant Tue, 25 Feb 2025 08:33:06 +0000 Dreaming for More Than Punishment: Understanding People Who Cause Harm and Abolition Dreaming for More Than Punishment: Understanding People Who Cause Harm and Abolition Dreaming for More Than Punishment: Understanding People Who Cause Harm and Abolition https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/02/dreaming-for-more-than-punishment.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/01/resting-to-end-sexual-violence.php Rest is more than taking a break. It is a way to care for our bodies, minds, and relationships. When people are pushed to value productivity over their own needs, harm can grow. Choosing rest helps students reconnect, reflect, and build more compassion for themselves and others. A less harmful world starts with care, balance, and honoring human limits. Jilly Mcbane, student staff member Tue, 28 Jan 2025 21:45:53 +0000 Resting to End Sexual Violence Resting to End Sexual Violence Resting to End Sexual Violence https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/01/resting-to-end-sexual-violence.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/01/what-about-false-accusations.php Fear of false accusations can distract from the real harm survivors face. Most people who experience sexual violence never report it, and reporting can be long, painful, and confusing. A safer community focuses on support, accountability, and healing instead of fear and punishment. When people take responsibility for harm and listen to survivors, prevention becomes possible. MCVP Staff Tue, 14 Jan 2025 19:52:19 +0000 "What About False Accusations?" “What About False Accusations?” “What About False Accusations?” https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2025/01/what-about-false-accusations.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2024/09/back-to-school-advice-from-the-mcvp.php A new school year is a chance to build safer, healthier campus communities. Strong relationships start with respect, clear boundaries, and care for others. Prevention means looking out for friends, practicing consent, speaking up when something feels wrong, and knowing where to find support. Small choices can help create a culture where everyone feels safer, valued, and included. Jilly Mcbane, Student Staff Member Wed, 04 Sep 2024 08:52:35 +0000 Back-to-School Advice from the MCVP Back-to-School Advice from the MCVP Back-to-School Advice from the MCVP https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2024/09/back-to-school-advice-from-the-mcvp.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2024/04/embracing-failure-to-end-sexual-violence.php Failure can be a powerful teacher in the work to end sexual violence. Prevention takes courage, honesty, and the willingness to learn when efforts fall short. Instead of hiding mistakes, communities can use them to grow, build trust, and create better solutions. Lasting change happens when people stay accountable, keep learning, and continue working toward safety and justice. Lauren Rives, Student Staff Member Fri, 19 Apr 2024 19:42:02 +0000 Embracing Failure to End Sexual Violence Embracing Failure to End Sexual Violence Embracing Failure to End Sexual Violence https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2024/04/embracing-failure-to-end-sexual-violence.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2024/04/harm-is-a-shared-responsibility.php Harm does not happen in a vacuum. It is shaped by relationships, communities, systems, and the choices people make every day. Shared responsibility means moving beyond blame and asking how everyone can help prevent violence, support healing, and build accountability. Safer communities grow when people care for one another, challenge harmful norms, and work together for lasting change. Tillie Powell, Student Staff Member Thu, 04 Apr 2024 18:46:48 +0000 Harm Is A Shared Responsibility Harm Is A Shared Responsibility Harm Is A Shared Responsibility https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2024/04/harm-is-a-shared-responsibility.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2024/03/lets-keep-oppression-out-of-bathrooms.php Safety should never come at the cost of someone else’s dignity. Bathroom laws that target transgender, non-binary, and gender nonconforming people spread fear instead of preventing violence. Real prevention focuses on power, oppression, empathy, and care. Safer communities are built when everyone has access, respect, and protection without being treated as a threat. Whitney Hills, Associate Director of Education Thu, 28 Mar 2024 18:43:14 +0000 Let's Keep Oppression Out of Bathrooms Let’s Keep Oppression Out of Bathrooms Let’s Keep Oppression Out of Bathrooms https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2024/03/lets-keep-oppression-out-of-bathrooms.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2024/03/beyond-the-birds-and-the-bees.php Sex education should go beyond basic facts about bodies and reproduction. Young people also need to learn about consent, boundaries, respect, identity, and healthy relationships. Honest education can help prevent harm by giving people the tools to communicate, make informed choices, and care for themselves and others. Stronger prevention starts with teaching more than “the birds and the bees.” Addie Huff, Student Staff Member Thu, 21 Mar 2024 21:02:27 +0000 Beyond the Birds and the Bees Beyond the Birds and the Bees Beyond the Birds and the Bees https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2024/03/beyond-the-birds-and-the-bees.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2024/02/thinking-with-bell-hooks.php Love can be a powerful part of violence prevention. Bell Hooks teaches that love is more than a feeling. It is care, respect, trust, and responsibility in action. When communities practice love this way, they can challenge harm, build accountability, and create stronger relationships. Prevention grows when people choose honesty, care, and justice over control, silence, and fear. Terry Kim, Student Staff Member Fri, 01 Mar 2024 01:33:20 +0000 Thinking with Bell Hooks: What Does Love and Accountability Have to do with Sexual Violence Prevention? Thinking with Bell Hooks: What Does Love and Accountability Have to do with Sexual Violence Prevention? Thinking with Bell Hooks: What Does Love and Accountability Have to do with Sexual Violence Prevention? https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2024/02/thinking-with-bell-hooks.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2024/01/traditional-campus-safety-is-not-violence-prevention.php Campus safety is not the same as violence prevention. Cameras, alerts, locks, and patrols may respond to danger, but they do not address why harm happens in the first place. Real prevention means changing campus culture, teaching consent, building trust, and addressing power and accountability. Safer campuses come from stopping violence before it starts, not only reacting after harm occurs. Lauren Rives, Student Staff Member Thu, 18 Jan 2024 19:37:02 +0000 Traditional Campus Safety is Not Violence Prevention Traditional Campus Safety is Not Violence Prevention Traditional Campus Safety is Not Violence Prevention https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2024/01/traditional-campus-safety-is-not-violence-prevention.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/11/memorial-5k-reflections.php Community events can turn grief into action, remembrance, and hope. The Memorial 5K honors lives impacted by violence while bringing people together to support prevention. Reflection, care, and shared purpose help keep the work moving forward. By showing up for one another, communities can remember those lost, support those harmed, and build a safer future. Jilly Mcbane and Lauren Rives Thu, 02 Nov 2023 23:10:26 +0000 Reflections from the Lauren McCluskey Memorial 5k Reflections from the Lauren McCluskey Memorial 5k Reflections from the Lauren McCluskey Memorial 5k https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/11/memorial-5k-reflections.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/10/goodnight-nightcaps.php Nightcaps may seem playful or harmless, but they can raise serious questions about alcohol, pressure, and consent. When drinking is involved, clear communication and care matter even more. Healthy relationships should never depend on lowering someone’s boundaries or ignoring their comfort. Respect means making sure every choice is clear, willing, and safe for everyone involved. Allie Moore and Whitney Hills Tue, 24 Oct 2023 23:11:01 +0000 Goodnight Nightcaps Goodnight Nightcaps Goodnight Nightcaps https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/10/goodnight-nightcaps.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/05/learn-to-set-boundaries.php Boundaries help people understand what feels safe, respectful, and healthy in relationships. Setting boundaries can feel hard, but it is an important skill for protecting well-being and building trust. Clear communication, self-awareness, and respect for others’ limits make relationships stronger. Everyone deserves space to say what they need and have those needs taken seriously. Brenda Payan Fri, 05 May 2023 19:21:47 +0000 Learn to Set Boundaries! Learn to Set Boundaries! Learn to Set Boundaries! https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/05/learn-to-set-boundaries.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/05/prevent-sexual-violence.php Preventing sexual violence starts with changing the culture that allows harm to happen. It means teaching consent, respecting boundaries, challenging harmful beliefs, and holding people accountable. Everyone has a role in creating safer relationships, schools, workplaces, and communities. Through education, care, and action, prevention becomes more than an idea. It becomes a shared commitment to safety and respect. Thu, 04 May 2023 22:35:39 +0000 The New Consent Narrative The New Consent Narrative: Episode 3 -- Here are some things you can do to prevent sexual violence The New Consent Narrative: Episode 3 — Here are some things you can do to prevent sexual violence The New Consent Narrative: Episode 3 — Here are some things you can do to prevent sexual violence https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/05/prevent-sexual-violence.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/05/considering-consent.php Consent is more than a simple yes or no. It is an ongoing conversation built on respect, trust, and clear communication. Healthy consent means checking in, listening, and making sure everyone feels safe and free to choose. By thinking more deeply about consent, communities can build healthier relationships and prevent harm before it happens. Wed, 03 May 2023 08:11:32 +0000 The New Consent Narrative The New Consent Narrative: Episode 2 -- Considering Consent The New Consent Narrative: Episode 2 — Considering Consent The New Consent Narrative: Episode 2 — Considering Consent https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/05/considering-consent.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/05/no-quick-fix.php There is no quick fix for ending violence. Real prevention takes time, care, and a willingness to change the conditions that allow harm to happen. Simple tips and short-term solutions can only go so far. Safer communities are built through education, accountability, healthy relationships, and shared action that addresses the root causes of violence. Tue, 02 May 2023 21:53:53 +0000 The New Consent Narrative The New Consent Narrative: Episode 1 -- No Quick Fix The New Consent Narrative: Episode 1 — No Quick Fix The New Consent Narrative: Episode 1 — No Quick Fix https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/05/no-quick-fix.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/05/we-have-a-podcast.php Conversations can help spark change. The McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention’s podcast brings prevention topics to life through honest discussions about relationships, consent, community, and accountability. Each episode offers a chance to learn, reflect, and think differently about ending violence. By making prevention easier to understand and talk about, the podcast helps build a culture of safety, care, and respect. Jilly Mcbane Mon, 01 May 2023 21:30:12 +0000 The New Consent Narrative We Have a Podcast!!! We Have a Podcast!!! We Have a Podcast!!! https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/05/we-have-a-podcast.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/03/causing-harm-if-campaign-reflections.php Reflection is part of real prevention. The “You Might Be Causing Harm If…” campaign invites people to look honestly at everyday behaviors that can pressure, shame, or hurt others. Growth starts when people take feedback seriously, respect boundaries, and choose accountability over excuses. Safer communities are built when learning leads to action, care, and lasting change. Lauren Rives Tue, 28 Mar 2023 03:29:31 +0000 You Might Be Causing Harm If… Reflections on our "You Might Be Causing Harm If..." campaign Reflections on our “You Might Be Causing Harm If…” campaign Reflections on our “You Might Be Causing Harm If…” campaign https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/03/causing-harm-if-campaign-reflections.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/03/confessions-of-a-reformed-true-crime-girly.php True crime can feel interesting, but it can also turn real harm into entertainment. Stories about violence involve real people, families, and communities who deserve care and respect. Thinking critically about true crime means asking who benefits, whose voices are missing, and whether the story supports survivors or exploits their pain. Responsible media choices can help build a culture of empathy, accountability, and prevention. Tillie Powell Mon, 13 Mar 2023 22:34:11 +0000 Confessions of a Reformed True Crime Girly Confessions of a Reformed True Crime Girly Confessions of a Reformed True Crime Girly https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/03/confessions-of-a-reformed-true-crime-girly.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/03/mcvp-surf-collaborating-to-increase-consent-understanding.php Consent is a key part of safer relationships and communities. The McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention and SURF work together to help students better understand consent, boundaries, and respect. Through education and collaboration, they encourage clear communication and shared responsibility. Strong prevention starts when people learn how to listen, check in, and honor each other’s choices. Lauren Rives Mon, 06 Mar 2023 17:49:38 +0000 Here's How MCVP and SURF are Collaborating to Increase Understanding of Consent Here’s How MCVP and SURF are Collaborating to Increase Understanding of Consent Here’s How MCVP and SURF are Collaborating to Increase Understanding of Consent https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/03/mcvp-surf-collaborating-to-increase-consent-understanding.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/02/how-sexual-scripts-shape-our-expectations-of-hookups.php Sexual scripts shape what people think hookups should look like, but those expectations can create pressure and confusion. Ideas about who should start sex, what desire should look like, or how people should act can make consent harder to understand. Healthier hookups come from clear communication, respect, and checking in. Everyone deserves space to choose what feels safe and right for them. Jilly Mcbane and Sam Judd-Kim Mon, 27 Feb 2023 08:32:10 +0000 How Sexual Scripts Shape our Expectations of Hookups How Sexual Scripts Shape our Expectations of Hookups How Sexual Scripts Shape our Expectations of Hookups https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/02/how-sexual-scripts-shape-our-expectations-of-hookups.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/02/dear-student-activists-this-is-where-weve-failed-you.php Student activists have long pushed schools and communities to take sexual violence seriously. Their work has created change, but too often, they are asked to carry the burden alone. Real prevention means listening to students, supporting their leadership, and building systems that do not rely on burnout. Safer campuses are possible when institutions share responsibility and turn student demands into lasting action. Chris Linder Mon, 20 Feb 2023 16:47:31 +0000 Dear Student Activists: This is Where We’ve Failed You Dear Student Activists: This is Where We’ve Failed You Dear Student Activists: This is Where We’ve Failed You https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/02/dear-student-activists-this-is-where-weve-failed-you.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/02/imagining-a-different-world.php A safer world is possible when communities choose care, respect, and accountability over silence and harm. Ending sexual violence takes more than reacting after harm happens. It means imagining new ways to build relationships, share power, and support one another. With education, action, and hope, communities can create a future where everyone feels valued, believed, and safe. Chris Linder Wed, 08 Feb 2023 01:13:34 +0000 Imagining a Different World Imagining a Different World Imagining a Different World https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/02/imagining-a-different-world.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/02/who-causes-harm-the-answer-may-surprise-you.php People who cause harm are not always strangers or “bad guys” who are easy to spot. They can be friends, partners, classmates, coworkers, or trusted community members. Understanding this truth helps challenge myths about violence and shifts focus toward accountability, consent, and prevention. Safer communities are built when everyone learns to notice harmful behavior, speak up, and take responsibility. Brenda Payan Mon, 06 Feb 2023 18:25:05 +0000 Who Causes Harm? The Answer May Surprise You Who Causes Harm? The Answer May Surprise You Who Causes Harm? The Answer May Surprise You https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/02/who-causes-harm-the-answer-may-surprise-you.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/02/youre-sharing-nudes-that-arent-yours.php Sharing nudes that are not yours is a serious violation of trust, privacy, and consent. It can cause deep harm, shame, and fear for the person in the image. Respect means never sending, posting, or saving someone’s private photos without clear permission. Safer communities are built when people protect each other’s dignity and hold harmful behavior accountable. Jilly Mcbane Fri, 03 Feb 2023 00:25:04 +0000 ... You're Sharing Nudes that Aren't Yours … You’re Sharing Nudes that Aren’t Yours … You’re Sharing Nudes that Aren’t Yours https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/02/youre-sharing-nudes-that-arent-yours.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/02/you-give-a-person-drinks-to-loosen-them-up.php Giving someone drinks to “loosen them up” is not harmless. Alcohol can affect a person’s ability to make clear choices, and using it to lower someone’s boundaries is a form of pressure. Healthy consent must be sober, clear, and freely given. Respect means caring about another person’s safety, comfort, and choice more than getting what you want. Cameron Campbell Wed, 01 Feb 2023 19:33:00 +0000 You Might Be Causing Harm If… ... You Give a Person Drinks to Loosen Them Up … You Give a Person Drinks to Loosen Them Up … You Give a Person Drinks to Loosen Them Up https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/02/you-give-a-person-drinks-to-loosen-them-up.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/01/you-brag-about-how-much-sex-youre-having-to-your-friends.php Bragging about sex may seem harmless, but it can cross boundaries and disrespect others. Sharing details without consent can break trust, spread rumors, and turn people into stories instead of full people. Healthy relationships and friendships are built on respect, privacy, and care. Real confidence means honoring others’ dignity, not using sexual experiences to gain attention or approval. Sam Judd-Kim Tue, 31 Jan 2023 16:04:12 +0000 You Might Be Causing Harm If… ... You Brag about How Much Sex You're Having to Your Friends … You Brag about How Much Sex You’re Having to Your Friends … You Brag about How Much Sex You’re Having to Your Friends https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/01/you-brag-about-how-much-sex-youre-having-to-your-friends.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/01/you-ignore-signs-that-your-partner-isnt-enjoying-themselves.php Ignoring signs that a partner is uncomfortable can cause real harm. Consent is more than hearing “yes.” It also means paying attention to body language, tone, silence, and changes in behavior. Healthy intimacy includes checking in, slowing down, and respecting boundaries without pressure. Everyone deserves to feel safe, heard, and cared for during any sexual experience. Yulisa Padilla Mon, 30 Jan 2023 08:39:52 +0000 You Might Be Causing Harm If… ... You Ignore Signs that Your Partner isn't Enjoying Themselves … You Ignore Signs that Your Partner isn’t Enjoying Themselves … You Ignore Signs that Your Partner isn’t Enjoying Themselves https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/01/you-ignore-signs-that-your-partner-isnt-enjoying-themselves.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/01/you-make-fun-of-someone-for-being-a-virgin.php Mocking someone for being a virgin can cause shame, pressure, and harm. Everyone has the right to make their own choices about sex without being judged or rushed. Respect means honoring different experiences, values, and boundaries. Healthy relationships and communities do not measure worth by sexual experience. They create space for honesty, choice, and care. Jaylee Aston Fri, 27 Jan 2023 16:32:12 +0000 You Might Be Causing Harm If… ... You Make Fun of Someone for Being a Virgin … You Make Fun of Someone for Being a Virgin … You Make Fun of Someone for Being a Virgin https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/01/you-make-fun-of-someone-for-being-a-virgin.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/01/you-talk-someone-into-having-sex-with-you.php Talking someone into sex is not consent. Pressure, guilt, or repeated asking can make someone feel trapped, even if they finally say yes. Healthy consent should be clear, willing, and free from force. Respect means accepting “no,” listening to boundaries, and caring more about a person’s comfort than getting what you want. Lauren Rives Wed, 25 Jan 2023 17:45:26 +0000 You Might Be Causing Harm If… ... You Talk Someone into Having Sex with You … You Talk Someone into Having Sex with You … You Talk Someone into Having Sex with You https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/01/you-talk-someone-into-having-sex-with-you.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/01/you-arent-getting-tested-for-an-std-sti-regularly.php Regular STD/STI testing is part of caring for yourself and your partners. Many infections do not show symptoms, so testing helps protect health, build trust, and prevent harm. Honest conversations with doctors and partners about sexual health, protection, and testing can lead to safer choices. Respectful relationships include shared responsibility, clear communication, and care for everyone’s well-being. Brenda Payan Tue, 24 Jan 2023 08:23:59 +0000 You Might Be Causing Harm If… ... You aren't Getting Tested for an STD/STI Regularly … You aren’t Getting Tested for an STD/STI Regularly … You aren’t Getting Tested for an STD/STI Regularly https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/01/you-arent-getting-tested-for-an-std-sti-regularly.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/01/think-theyll-get-over-a-bad-hookup.php A “bad hookup” can have a lasting impact, especially when consent, respect, or safety are missing. Dismissing someone’s experience can make harm feel even worse and leave survivors feeling alone. Support starts with listening, believing, and avoiding judgment. Everyone deserves relationships and sexual experiences where their boundaries are clear, respected, and taken seriously. Tillie Powell Mon, 23 Jan 2023 15:46:46 +0000 You Might Be Causing Harm If… ... You Think it Was Just a Bad Hookup and They'll Just Get Over it … You Think it Was Just a Bad Hookup and They’ll Just Get Over it … You Think it Was Just a Bad Hookup and They’ll Just Get Over it https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/01/think-theyll-get-over-a-bad-hookup.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/01/you-might-be-causing-harm-if-campaign.php Small actions can cause harm, even when that is not the intent. The “You Might Be Causing Harm If…” campaign helps people notice behaviors that pressure, shame, or disrespect others. By naming these actions, communities can learn how to build safer relationships, practice consent, and take responsibility. Preventing violence starts with honest self-reflection and a willingness to change. Jilly Mcbane Tue, 17 Jan 2023 19:05:55 +0000 You Might Be Causing Harm If… About our "You Might Be Causing Harm If..." Campaign About our “You Might Be Causing Harm If…” Campaign About our “You Might Be Causing Harm If…” Campaign https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/01/you-might-be-causing-harm-if-campaign.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/01/problem-with-begging-for-sex.php Begging for sex is not harmless flirting. Repeated pressure can make someone feel guilty, worn down, or afraid to say no. Healthy consent should be clear, respectful, and freely given, without pushing or pleading. Understanding the difference between desire and pressure helps build safer relationships where boundaries are honored and everyone feels respected. Jilly Mcbane Tue, 10 Jan 2023 00:03:59 +0000 You Might Be Causing Harm If… Begging Someone to Have Sex with You? Here's Why that is a Problem Begging Someone to Have Sex with You? Here’s Why that is a Problem Begging Someone to Have Sex with You? Here’s Why that is a Problem https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2023/01/problem-with-begging-for-sex.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2022/12/end-sexual-violence-education.php Ending sexual violence starts with education that teaches respect, consent, and healthy relationships. Prevention is not just one lesson or one training. It takes ongoing learning, honest conversations, and shared action from the whole community. When students, staff, and leaders understand the root causes of harm, they can help build safer spaces where everyone is valued and protected. Lauren Rives Mon, 05 Dec 2022 19:03:36 +0000 End Sexual Violence by Educating People About What Causes Harm End Sexual Violence by Educating People About What Causes Harm End Sexual Violence by Educating People About What Causes Harm https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2022/12/end-sexual-violence-education.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2022/11/is-it-seduction-or-coercion-know-the-difference.php Seduction and coercion are not the same. Healthy sexual connection is built on respect, choice, and clear consent. Coercion happens when someone uses pressure, guilt, fear, or power to get what they want. Knowing the difference helps people protect boundaries, support others, and build safer relationships. Consent should always be freely given, informed, and easy to take back. Jilly Mcbane Wed, 16 Nov 2022 15:59:03 +0000 Is it Seduction or Coercion? Know the Difference! Is it Seduction or Coercion? Know the Difference! Is it Seduction or Coercion? Know the Difference! https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2022/11/is-it-seduction-or-coercion-know-the-difference.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2022/01/social-media-anonymity-sexual-violence.php Anonymous social media can give survivors a space to share stories, seek support, and call for change. Campus conversations about sexual violence show that many students want accountability, education, and safer communities. Reporting can be part of healing for some survivors, but it should always be their choice. Real prevention means supporting survivors while also challenging the people, systems, and cultures that allow harm to continue. Allie Moore (She/Her/Hers), Student Staff Member Fri, 28 Jan 2022 22:41:08 +0000 Social Media Anonymity in Talking About Sexual Violence Social Media Anonymity in Talking About Sexual Violence Social Media Anonymity in Talking About Sexual Violence https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2022/01/social-media-anonymity-sexual-violence.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/11/what-were-you-wearing.php Clothing never causes violence. The question “What were you wearing?” shifts blame onto survivors instead of holding people who cause harm accountable. Survivors deserve support, respect, and belief, no matter what they wore, where they were, or what choices they made. Ending sexual violence means challenging victim-blaming myths and building a culture where responsibility stays with the person who caused harm. Blessing Heelis, Undergraduate Staff Wed, 24 Nov 2021 08:59:20 +0000 What Were You Wearing? What Were You Wearing? What Were You Wearing? https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/11/what-were-you-wearing.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/11/quick-fixes-and-perfecting-victims-are-not-the-answer-to-ending-violence.php Quick fixes cannot end violence on their own. Hand signals, safety tools, and awareness tips may help in some moments, but they should not place the burden on victims to stop harm. Real prevention means holding people who cause harm accountable, challenging power and oppression, and valuing every survivor’s story. Ending violence takes deeper change, not perfect victims or simple solutions. Chris Linder, Director, MCVP Tue, 09 Nov 2021 08:15:17 +0000 Quick Fixes and Perfecting Victims are Not the Answer to Ending Violence Quick Fixes and Perfecting Victims are Not the Answer to Ending Violence Quick Fixes and Perfecting Victims are Not the Answer to Ending Violence https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/11/quick-fixes-and-perfecting-victims-are-not-the-answer-to-ending-violence.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/04/reflecting-on-chaos.php Chaos, grief, and violence can feel overwhelming, especially after a hard year. Reflection helps name that pain while also showing why prevention work matters. The McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention offers hope through education, community action, and a shared commitment to change. Rest, care, and teamwork are all part of building a safer future where relationship and sexual violence are no longer accepted. Allie Moore, Student Staff Thu, 29 Apr 2021 21:13:49 +0000 Reflecting on Chaos Reflecting on Chaos Reflecting on Chaos https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/04/reflecting-on-chaos.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/04/its-not-enough-to-just-know.php Knowledge is important, but action is what creates change. Learning about intimate partner violence, abuse, and prevention is only the first step. Real impact happens when communities use that knowledge to speak up, support survivors, teach others, and push for safer systems. Everyone has a role in ending violence, and doing something matters more than simply knowing the problem exists. Michelle Valdes Tue, 06 Apr 2021 22:29:50 +0000 It's Not Enough to Just "Know" It’s Not Enough to Just “Know” It’s Not Enough to Just “Know” https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/04/its-not-enough-to-just-know.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/03/how-bills-related-to-rsv-fared-in-utah-legislature-this-year.php Utah lawmakers considered several bills tied to relationship and sexual violence during the 2021 legislative session. Some measures passed, including changes to revenge porn laws, campus crime reporting, and awareness for military sexual assault survivors. Others, like bills on affirmative consent and sexual violence prevention education, did not move forward. These decisions show how laws can shape safety, accountability, and prevention across campuses and communities. Brooke Adams Mon, 29 Mar 2021 23:31:22 +0000 How Bills Related to RSV Fared in Utah Legislature This Year How Bills Related to RSV Fared in Utah Legislature This Year How Bills Related to RSV Fared in Utah Legislature This Year https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/03/how-bills-related-to-rsv-fared-in-utah-legislature-this-year.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/03/misogyny-and-asian-hate.php Misogyny, racism, and violence are deeply connected. In response to the 2021 Atlanta spa shootings, this discussion explores how white supremacy, sexism, and power shape acts of harm against Asian women and marginalized communities. It challenges the excuses often used to explain violence and calls for deeper conversations about accountability, oppression, and prevention. By addressing harmful beliefs early and examining the systems that normalize hate, communities can work toward lasting change, safety, and collective responsibility. Mon, 29 Mar 2021 23:24:31 +0000 Misogyny and Asian Hate Misogyny and Asian Hate Misogyny and Asian Hate https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/03/misogyny-and-asian-hate.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/03/the-structure-of-the-mcvp.php The McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention is built around one clear goal: stopping relationship and sexual violence before it happens. Its work uses education, research, training, and campus partnerships to address the root causes of harm. By focusing on primary prevention, power, identity, and accountability, the center brings students, staff, and faculty together to create safer communities and lasting change. Mary-Jo Dalton, Student Staff Mon, 15 Mar 2021 08:45:08 +0000 The Structure of the MCVP The Structure of the MCVP The Structure of the MCVP https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/03/the-structure-of-the-mcvp.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/03/disability-and-rsv.php Disabled people face higher risks of intimate partner violence and relationship sexual violence, yet their experiences are often overlooked. Abuse can include control of mobility devices, denial of medication, isolation, and other forms of harm tied to disability. Understanding these risks through an intersectional lens helps create prevention efforts that are more inclusive, informed, and effective. Safer communities must value disabled people, listen to their experiences, and address the systems that make violence more likely. Caroline Lalliss, Student Staff Mon, 08 Mar 2021 22:57:46 +0000 Disability and RSV Disability and RSV Disability and RSV https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/03/disability-and-rsv.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/02/nerds-can-be-creeps-too.php Nerd culture can feel fun, creative, and welcoming, but harmful behavior can happen in any space. Harassment, sexism, and boundary-crossing are not limited to one type of person or group. Calling out these actions helps make gaming, fandom, tech, and online communities safer for everyone. Respect, consent, and accountability should be part of every community, no matter how “nice” or harmless someone may seem. Tayler Bseiso, Student Staff Member Mon, 22 Feb 2021 08:30:39 +0000 Nerds Can Be Creeps Too Nerds Can Be Creeps Too Nerds Can Be Creeps Too https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/02/nerds-can-be-creeps-too.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/02/pepper-sprays-tasers-and-training.php Pepper spray, tasers, and self-defense trainings are often seen as simple safety tools, but safety is more than carrying a device or learning a move. Real prevention means looking at why violence happens and working to stop harm before it starts. While personal safety tools may help some people feel prepared, stronger communities are built through education, respect, accountability, and care for one another. MJ Chevesich, Graduate Research Assistant Mon, 08 Feb 2021 08:00:04 +0000 Pepper Sprays, Tasers, and Trainings Pepper Sprays, Tasers, and Trainings Pepper Sprays, Tasers, and Trainings https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/02/pepper-sprays-tasers-and-training.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/02/what-we-do-at-the-u.php The McCluskey Center for Violence Prevention brings people together to create safer campus communities. Through research, education, and action, the center works to prevent violence before it happens. Its mission focuses on learning from experts, supporting survivors, and building a culture of respect and care at the University of Utah and beyond. Tue, 02 Feb 2021 19:42:41 +0000 What We Do At The U What We Do At The U What We Do At The U https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/02/what-we-do-at-the-u.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/02/what-is-the-power-concious-framework.php Power shapes how people experience safety, harm, and support. A power-conscious framework looks at how identity, history, privilege, and systems affect sexual violence. It challenges communities to move beyond one-size-fits-all solutions and focus on the deeper causes of harm. By building self-awareness, naming oppression, and working together, this approach helps create prevention efforts that are more fair, inclusive, and lasting. Blessing Heelis, Student Staff Member Tue, 02 Feb 2021 19:42:41 +0000 What Is The Power-Conscious Framework? What Is The Power-Conscious Framework? What Is The Power-Conscious Framework? https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/02/what-is-the-power-concious-framework.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/01/exploring-myths-stranger-danger.php “Stranger danger” is a message many people learn early, but it does not tell the full story of harm and safety. Violence can come from people we know, trust, or see every day. By challenging this myth, we can better understand boundaries, trust our feelings, support survivors, and teach children that their comfort matters. Small changes in how we talk about safety can help build stronger, safer communities. Tayler Bseiso, Student Staff Member Tue, 26 Jan 2021 19:42:41 +0000 Exploring Myths: Stranger Danger Exploring Myths: Stranger Danger Exploring Myths: Stranger Danger https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2021/01/exploring-myths-stranger-danger.php https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2020/10/what-is-primary-prevention.php What if violence could be stopped before it ever begins? Primary prevention focuses on creating safer communities by building healthy relationships, teaching respect, and setting clear boundaries early. Instead of only responding after harm happens, it looks “upstream” to address the root causes of violence. Through education, awareness, and community action, primary prevention helps build a culture where everyone feels safer, valued, and respected. Chris Linder, Center Director Wed, 07 Oct 2020 03:12:18 +0000 What is Primary Prevention What is Primary Prevention What is Primary Prevention https://violenceprevention.utah.edu/blog/posts/2020/10/what-is-primary-prevention.php